Why do these questions always crop up, there important, they give us a means of breaking the ice. Tell each other if we have similar interests. But does it say something more profound about us we don't realize. Like body language or facial movements, we make unconsciously yet tell an observant viewer much about what's going on in our head, ok off the phone but it's bedtime here I'll finish this up tomorrow where. Well talk about NLP and alpha's
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Interestingly a recent study showed attraction is indeed discerned through pupil contraction, which means this study has also given us a new non-invasive means of discovering our sexuality. People who have studied neuro-linguistic programming have known this for along time. Paying attention to facial and body positioning tells us a lot about a persons inner thoughts, and how to manipulate them. I'm not suggesting you learn it for this reason, but it is good to know. Like ladies when your touching your face and hair, or the famous hair flip your saying you have an interest in the person your talking to. When your picking dust, or lint off of someone, your grooming is showing those present you belong to them. If your standing arms crossed, feet turned inward, looking down, your clearly closed off, unsure and defensive or uncomfortable, the list goes on and on.
Did you know moving your arms to much makes you appear nervous, unsure, and frantic? While being to stiff makes you come off as cerebral and analytical. There are so many subtly signs which illustrate honesty, sexuality, confidence, Ect. So how and what does our favorites say about us? Can it say something about our education, political affiliations, income? Something to think about next time you ask someone what book they like, it may tell you more than you think.
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